Hello handsome! So it’s been a minute but I am back to continue this post for you. So continuing on, here are some tips on how to get the girl who rejected you. But be mindful that if she says, “never speak to me again!” then she may actually mean it. This is where you will need to determine how the rejection went.
Girls will do a few things. She may reject you in a polite way, friend zone you or come right out and tell you not to ever bother again. The first option is your best bet. Lets start with if she wishes to never speak to you again. When a female says this, the best and right thing to do is to leave her alone. Don’t try to ever reach out to her. Don’t try to always be where she is. Just stay away. Chances are you probably may have unintentionally done something to her, or you are just not her type and she is into someone else.
Secondly, if she friend zone you, you better make an escape quick! This is not to say that you cannot be around her. Make it clear that you are still interested in her by giving her extra attention. If you treat her like you would another female friend, she will only see you as so. During this time, get to know her more. Learn what she likes and dislikes by having casual conversations or group conversations. But don’t be too much. Give her space as well. The more she is around you and hangs out with you, the more she will learn about you. And then she may just start looking at you as a potential. This is the time to truly market YOU. I suggest being flirty with her female friends; this may make her jealous without her actually realizing it before hand. Try to avoid conversations with her about another man she may be interested in. Because if this happens, then you are truly in the friend zone.
Lastly, if she gave you a polite rejection, this just mean that she may actually be interested but there may be a few things that gave her a red flag. At this point, give her some space but start learning more about her to see if you can decipher what those red flags are. You could also just ask her or mutual friends why she was not interested. Remember to be flirty! She already knows that you are interested in her. Tell her she’s beautiful. Compliment her. Do things for her but don’t over do it. Invite her out and keep conversations going. A key here though is to realize and do the following; if she is engaging in a conversation with you, look out for open-ended statements or expressions. She may just want to see what your come back will be. Also, take a day or two without starting a conversation with her, if she reaches out to you, then this is a sign that she is interested and is waiting on you to make the move.
Guys, regardless of option 2 or 3, complimenting and giving special attention is key. If you recognize the flirt, go for it! You can win her over. 😉 This is just a few helpful tips in getting the girl you want.
If you have questions specifically for a female, leave it in the comment box below. There could just be another post completely dedicated to answering those questions.