Hi there,
Thanks for stopping by. I guess by the Title you are wondering what this is all about and if you are a guy, how this is going to help you get the girl you want. So let’s just go right in. As we all know, the mind of a women can be so complicated! And, being that I am a women, I guess that gives me the right to confirm this. I will say that we can definitely be complicated and indecisive human beings.
Now, I know many of you, even myself, have faced rejection probably more times than we would like. Guys, don’t let this hurt your pride or Ego. If a girl rejects you, that doesn’t mean she didn’t at least gave the thought that you and her could be a possibility! Women know what they want, But when it comes to love, we can be wishy washy and very much indecisive about “exactly” what we want from a man. We can be swooned and charmed. Flattered and made to feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. Swept right off our feet by a man we never thought we would date. What I am trying to say is that EVERY guy has a 50/50 chance.
Let me break it down for you gentlemen!
If there is a woman out there that you think is someone who will be very much compatible for you, ask her out! Talk to her, get to know her. If you decide that you are going to ask her off right off the bat, prepare for rejection. Women want to know what potential you have. What you have to offer. Not saying $$$ but what kind of man you are. How do you treat women, family, Friends, Faith and if you have good strong morals or values. So even if you get rejected, take a moment and give her a little space, and then slowly work you way into getting to know her. The key though is to not let her put you in the friends zone! Friend zone is a no zone for the girl you want.
Keep some flirt in there and find out what she wants in a man and see where you fit in to her life. Now, keeping all of that in mind, just because she said no doesn’t mean that if you asked her again, you would get the same answer. That’s your 50/50 chance. Third time can be a charm too. The more you get to know her, the more she will get to know you and that’s something you will never know if you dont go for it. She may end up WANTING you.
Stay tuned for part 2! Next time I’m going to continue this discussion and tell you what else you can do if she says no or if she won’t let you be her friend or even if she doesn’t let you into her group of friends.